Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Just Married

Just Married…..

It’s one long year completed with joy and happiness, Life filled with love, and I just can't believe it happened all so fast.. (May 21'st most memorable day in my life) 2006 - 2007. The year full of sweets, lots of lunch and dinner offers from relatives and a whole lot of functions / parties to attend..................

It all started last year 2006 with me and my wife when we met for the first time (it’s an arranged marriage). We don’t know each other neither we had any clue of how to start even a small conversation. It’s like two strangers starting off for a new journey and we know that this journey is forever and we need to understand each other in every aspect. (Well I feel that I understand her now but still she is trying to figure me out). Understanding each others feelings, thoughts, etc.....

Our marriage was very traditional (very typical Hyderabadi telugu marriage including all kinds of noises BARAAAT, BAAJA, RECEPTION, DANCE DHOOM DHADAKA with over thousand people participation) and once all these dhoom is done she came to my home (our home) and I know how uncomfortable it will be for a person to move out of a house where she stayed in for 20 long years and to move to a new home with completely new environment and new set of people. I tried my very best to compliment with this situation but most importantly its her who passed this situation very smoothly, adjusted very well with our family...I really want to thank her for this..Thanks love.

Just after 1 month of my marriage I went to US for a project work, its the first time I felt I was missing somebody(and she felt like she lost something most precious in her life) and the best part in our life, where we both felt we are for each other is when I fell sick..(she was praying and doing all kinds of seva to me) and that’s the time where we got a chance to understand each other perfectly and then on its like we are best friends now, most of the time not agreeing with each others statements(small fights, it makes life easy and happy, necessary for newly wed :) )

I am very lucky to get a life partner like her....and I really thank all the people who made OUR LIFE happy with all their good wishes. Thank You ALL and waiting for many marriage anniversary(s) coming ahead in our life...

ENJOY LIFE…..its of very short span.

6 comments:

Dhanjay said...

hmm wht say,,, this guy became so senti,,,, wow.

Anyways i always felt tht arranged marriage is nothing but a hell,,, but this guy making me to put a second thought, unknowing each other and start a life and that too in such a dazzling way,,,

I can say apart from u lucky guy getting such a wonderful girl, the girl also pretty much lucky to get u. if i would hav a girl, i would definitely proposed u,, jussss kidding...:)

Vikas Yatam said...

annai.....yeah i got some senti there, but i just want to share my feelings....

I will try to put some different kind of stuff next time....

I would have accepted ur proposal if you were girl or else if it is SFO(CA) i would have accepted it even if you were not a girl(Justttttt Kidding :))

Unknown said...

Hey Uncle, Sorry for viewing the blog late. WISH U A BELATED HAPPY ANNIVERSARY.... Hope n wish u made it unforgettable.

Its been nice reading ur experience n thinking of a life that way. I forgot everything for a couple of minutes while reading it and was involved sooo much as how u were feeling while writing this. It was a gr8 message dude. I could say, Its been inspiring all others in our group to a gr8 extent.

HATTTSSS of dude(Uncle). :)

Vikas Yatam said...

pramod....thx for complimentsss(chaala ekkuvaga pogidesavu... but i really like pogadtalu)

Amar said...

Vikas Bhai...Sorry for the Late Response....(As u know,i am Late Lateeef always :) )

But...now after reading your blog i(My self) felt little bit thoughtful....about my life partner....!

One thing to remind you :Manchi Vallaku Eppudu Manche Jaruguthundi vikas bhai...!! Any ways you are very fortunate and more than U ...Bhabhi is very fortunate to get Hubby like you...!!

Cheers
Amar

Vikas Yatam said...

Thx Amar....Its late than never...anyways, thanx again,as i know i was bothering you guys too much to read my blogs...but its really good to share my feelings with you ppl.